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self relationship

self #relationship

Don’t worry about what people think about you: they don’t.

No one cares about your opinion until you are either rich, influential, or very talented.

Be kind & loving, but smart.

Just <span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b><u>Focus on relationships with high-principled, driven, happy people</u></b></span>

If you think people always reciprocate what you do for them, you haven't met enough people.

Some even attempt to backstab you out of resentfulness, because you "make them feel bad."

todo

Build a personalized system that's in sync with your nature.

Stop looking for the best deal you can get, and start looking for <span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b><u>someone you like enough and trust enough to build a life with</u></b></span>

  • and stick with them

Confidence leads to decisiveness.

<span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b><u>An indecisive men is useless</u></b></span>.

<span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b><u>Asking for feedback</u></b></span> all the time is the best way to stay grounded in reality

build your <span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b><u>knowledge, network, body, and a non-job cash flow source</u></b></span>.

Literally everything else solves itself if you have freedom, health, and judgement sorted out.

love

A woman should never submit to a man she doesn’t trust implicitly to make decisions that are in the best interest of his family.

If she doesn’t <span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b><u>trust or have confidence in</u></b></span> him, she doesn’t respect him, and therefore, shouldn’t be with him.

self

"Being attractive" is mostly about:

  • being driven by <span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b>noble purposes</b></span>
  • <span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b>optimizing your diet and habits</b></span>
  • being <span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b>clear-minded, calm, smart</b></span>
  • being <span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b>kind, relaxed, happy</b></span>

Trust yourself

  • In your ability to <span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b>succeed at anything you do</b></span>.
  • In your ability to <span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b>pick yourself back up if you fail.</b></span>
  • In your ability to <span style="font-family:SFUIText-Bold;"><b>continue the journey through the inevitable ups and downs</b></span>.